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The real reason behind negativity on Social media

Wearing: Boots: Givenchy, Bag: Chanel, Trousers: Allsaints, Cardigan: Zara, Hat: Asos

Social media is quite new world. Yes it has been around for several years but it is not something people had centuries before. And that means spreading news and information is going faster than before. What people have always had was variety of behaviours, certain type of characters and understanding of good and bad. And even hundreds years ago we had wonderful leaders and philosophers that inspire the world even in these days. Thanks to them we now have incredible knowledge about balance of life, law of attraction, how to find what our purpose of life is.  Those amazing quotes are now so much easier to spread thanks to media and social media and these days we are surrounded by knowledge gathered over many years. There are so many amazing books about things like law of attraction or about the path of your life.

And we are lucky and I am lucky as we now understand so much more about certain behaviour and why people act in a certain way whether that is a negative comment or their actions. As we come to this world and we grow up until early teen years we absorb everything that is being said, we absorb patterns from parents and close family, we create our own image of the world. Unfortunately during this period we create blocks that influence how we react to certain things for the rest of our lives and we can also subconsciously attract these things repetitively. And from a pure person that came to this world is now a brand new person full of prejudices and ideas that they gained based on their environment.

And that leads me to explaining why people would be negative in life or on social media. That explains those negative comments. It is people that absorbed certain patterns and created blocks during early years of their lives. The thing is it does not have to be just a negative comment but it can simply be an opinion. If you hear a lot as a child that rich people only got to their wealth by fraud you will assume that about most rich people, if you hear that age should define what you wear that is what you believe. We have ideas about money, looks, behaviours, food and everything you can think of. However, it does not mean that what was passed on to you is right. Somebody gave you that idea and it stuck and now millions of opinions and different points of view are circulating around social media and turning into negative comments, hate and more. Instead of spreading love, positive energy and joy we see total opposites.

What it means is that it is only somebody’s point of view and their beliefs and it has got nothing to do with you. It is that person’s personal view and there is not much they can do about that until they decided to change it themselves. We all can work on balancing our lives, spread only the good, stop being judgmental and trust me it is hard work. No matter how many books I read about this topic even I am influenced so much by things I was being told for years. Whatever somebody says about you or does to you has got nothing to do with you at all. It is them and their inner believes. So next time somebody tells you you are materialistic, stupid, ugly, fat, old or whatever it is. Remember, it is not you…it is them. You are only a mirror to them and that triggers their behaviour. If somebody has got an issue that some Youtuber bought another expensive bag it only shows something about that person commenting. It can be anything that they believe in and picked up during the years whether a thought that expensive bags are not achievable, that expensive things ruin character….whatever it is. You are the mirror and the comment is the reflection.

I am very lucky that when I forget this and a bad comment appears I discuss this with my best friend. She is such a smart person that she always reminds me of this and says always something so relevant that I cannot argue and always admit it has got nothing to do with me. The main thing is that negativity on social media has got nothing to do with you.

We all have the right to express and opinion but this is more message for those who receive or encounter negative situations, comments that it is has nothing to do with them.

Svet socialnich medii je docela nova zalezitost, ano uz par let je nasi soucasti, ale jako takovy neexistoval pred stovkami let. A diky tomuto svetu se dneska informace siri mnohem rychleji. Co tu ale bylo vzdy jsou lide ruzneho charakteru, ruzna chovani, ruzne nazory a take schopnost vnimat dobro a zlo. A kdyz se na to tak podivam tak po celou dobu pokazde existovali velmi chytri filozofove a vudci, kteri dokazali inspirovat a predavat svetu jejich znalost. Dnes kdyz ctu knizky o vecech jak najit sam sebe, jake je moje poslani, zakon pritazlivosti, tak je ve vetsine z nich pouzito tolik starych mot a hlasek. A vlastne i ty se siri diky socialnim mediim obrovskou rychlosti a muzou nam pomoci v kazde zivotni situaci. 

Ja mam to stesti a vy take, ze dneska uz muzeme konecne pochopit, proc se urciti lide chovaji jistym zpusobem, proc se nekdo chova spatne, slovne ublizuje nebo treba necha nekde na Instagramu negativni komentar. Kdyz se clovek narodi, narodi se cisty, bez predsudku nazoru ci strachu. To se bohuzel meni a jak deti rostou tak do urciteho veku, dejme tomu do nejakeho obdobi puberty nas opravdu hodne ovlivnuje nase blizke okoli, ktere nam predava sve predsudky, nazory a vzorce. A tak vznika uplne jina osoba, ktera si sebou nese ruzne bloky ulozene nekde v podvedomi, ktere ovlivni dalsi chod zivota a take to jak na urcite veci reaguje. A dalsi veci, kterou si clovek odnese jsou ruzne “mylne” nazory. To co je nam opakovano a vkladano, tomu jednoho dne zacneme verit a to pro nas bude ta nase pravda. A to ze o tom pisu neznamena, ze ja jsem perfektni. Jako kazdy mam sama co delat, ma spoustu bloku a take opakujicich se veci, ktere se mi budou porad dit, dokud neprijdu na to proc. 

A to me vede k tomu vysvetlit proc je tolik lidi na socialnich mediich negativni a proc nekdo zanechava takovy a takovy komentar. Kazdy z nich vlastne ukazuje sam sebe, predstavuje jejich prebrane nazory a stare vzorce a neni to nic jineho. Vy jim pouze nastavujete zrcadlo. Takze to co nekdo napise se vas vubec netyka. Jenom to vypovida o dane osobe a co si sebou z rannych let vzal. Kdyz vam jako diteti nekdo bude porad opakovat, ze kazdy bohac zbohatl zlodejinou a podvodem, tak uz tomu budete verit cely zivot. Kdyz vyrostete v prostredi, ze vek ma definovat to co nosite, tak tomu budete i verit. A tak na socialnich siti cirkuluje tolik ruznych nazoru, komentaru at uz pozitivnich ci negativnich, ale cokoli je vysloveno ci napsano vzdy jenom odrazi osobu, ktera to pise. Jak rika pan Jaroslav Dusek – Mne se to netyka. Sama s tim obcas bojuju a neni to jednoduche si to rict ve vsem pripadech, ale kdyz se opravdu zklidnite a zapremyslite o tom, zjistite, ze to tak opravdu je. A to je takova zprava pro ty, kterych se to tyka. Kdyz ma nekdo problem s tim, ze mate dalsi novou designerskou kabelku, neni to vas problem. Vy jste obraz v zrcadle a onen komentar je jenom odraz a tento odraz ma toho cloveka vest dal. Ma se zeptat sam sebe, proc mi to vadi, proc me toto chovani vyvadi z miry a neco s tim delat. 

Vsechno je proste jenom neci nazor, jejich vira a presvedceni a s vama to nema nic spolecneho. Kdyz vam nekdo rekne, ze jste hlupak, tak to svedci jenom neco o te dane osobne a vas se to netyka. Je to jenom nazor a vlastne pokud se dany clovek nerozhodne sam s tim neco udelat, vy moc nezmenite. Kazdy se musi rozhodnout sam. Je to o tom zit zivot v balancu, sirit dobro a lasku a prestat soudit ostatni. Verte mi, ze je to obrovska prace a takova nekonecna cesta. Ja mam treba tyden, kdy si vedu dobre a pak se mi stane neco a mam treba hodne negativni den, ktery me strhne zpet na spatnou cestu. A prestoze ctu knihy na toto tema, i ja jsem ovlivena vzorci z detstvi. Jedno je ale jasne, ze to co o vas nekdo rika s vama nema co delat. Takze kdyz vam nekdo rekne ci napise, ze jste materialista, hlupak, tlusty, stari nebo cokoli je to jejich vnimani sveta. Nejste to vy, ale oni…..

Obcas se taky zaseknu a kdyz mi nekdo napise nazor, ktery treba nevnimam podobne, ci mi nekdo zanecha negativni komentar. Ale nastesti mam svou nejlepsi kamaradku a ta mi vzdy pripomene jak to vlastne je. Pokazdne mi rekne neco tak trefneho, ze musim ten komentar hodit za hlavu i kdybych nechtela. Hlavni veci je, ze vam predhazovana negativita na internetu se vas proste netyka. 

Eva 

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Happy New Year 2019

Wearing: Tights: Gucci, Shoes: Christian Louboutin, Coat: Topshop, Top: Zara, Skirt: Revolve, Bag: Chanel, Hair Clips: The Triplets

And just like that 2019 is here and they say it will be a good one. So let’s hope so. This article is not about looking back at 2018 and doing reviews or anything like that. This article is about looking forward.

I think for the first time in years my intuition is not that clear and maybe that is a good thing. Most years I have felt something whether the new year bring me this or that and I just do not feel much so perhaps there will be some great achievements and surprises that 2019 will bring. Who knows?! One of the resolutions for me will be just to try to let the life flow as it is and see what happens. I have always loved to be in control but sometimes you just have it take things easy and live your life.

One thing I wanted is to start the year right so I went for very early morning run and bumped into so many people who were leaving wild parties and guess what. I wasn’t jealous at all. Whilst they will probably feel tired and hangover all day I will feel good LOL. I then had the most rewarding bath and did a fabulous skincare routine and finished everything with healthy breakfast. I read a book and I plan to clear my wardrobe todays so I can give some items to charity. These things make me feel good and it is all about feeling good isn’t it?

However, I am not just some robot who loves lists and healthy lifestyle so I will also watch a nice movie, read, eat some delicious lunch as nobody wants to overdo it on the first day of the new year.

I hope your 2019 will be the best ever and I hope you will still be coming back and enjoy my work.

Thank you.

A mame tu 2019 a nechce se mi tomu ani verit. Cas bezi tak rychle, ale po nekolika letech se neohlizim zpet a nechci aby tento clanek byl o tom predchozim roce. Spise se chci divat kupredu. 

Poprve po mnoha letech me moje intuice mate. Nebo spise mi nic nerika, abych to upresnila. Vetsinu let jsem mela takove pocity o tom jaky nasledujici rok bude a co mi prinese, ale letos nevnimam vnitrne vubec nic. Tak muzu jenom doufat, ze to bude rok hezky a prijemny. Jedno z predsevzeti urcite bude nechat zivot vice plynout. Jsem clovek, ktery ma rad kontrolu a je asi nacase se celkove vice uvolnit a brat veci tak jak jsou. 

Jednu vec jsem si ale prala a to je zacit dnesek a vlastne novy rok prijemne. A tak jsem si sla brzo rano zabehat. Po ceste jsem narazila na spoustu lidi, kteri prave opousteli vecirky a rikala jsem si, ze jim vubec nezavidim. Zatimco ja dnes budu plna energie a bude mi dobre, oni budou cely den spat a nebo hledat neco na zahnani kocoviny. A po kratkem behu jsem si dala horkou koupel v soli a pokracovala ve zkraslovaci rutine…veci jako maska a vsak to znate. Dala jsem si zdravou snidani a chvili si cetla. A dneska mam v planu jeste protridit par veci ze skrini, ktere pujdou na charitu. Zitra je tady totiz svoz primo z domu a chtela bych toho vyuzit. 

Ale tak prece jenom nejsem zadny robot, ktery si akorat pise seznamy a odskrtava co uz zvladnul a tak se urcite odpoledne podivame na nejaky film a treba si zajdeme na prochazku.

A Vam preju jenom to nej v roce 2019 a snad Vas moje prace bude bavit i nadale. 

Dekuju.

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Outfit: Merry Christmas and Christmas Eve thoughts

Pictures taken in Prague by Iva 

Wearing: Boots: Allsaints, Bag: Chanel, Coat: Zara, Dress: River Island, Hat: River Island

It is the morning of Christmas Eve and I woke up so so early (my own body already thinks it is normal after 2 years of being a mom). I just looked at the time when writing this and the time showed 4:44 which I guess is a good sign. I simply believe in these spiritual numbers. I have planned to write this post on Christmas Eve to make sure the thoughts are current and from the same day.

I kind of feel lucky to be able to have two Christmases and celebrate Czech Christmas on 24th and then Irish on the following day. However it also means more cooking for me which I personally do not mind though LOL. I am seriously thinking at this stage to film at least a bit today as so many of my foreign youtube subscribers want to know more about the Czech side of life so let’s see if I can manage it all and film the last day of vlogmas.

I really want to take the next few days and think about where my blog, social media and youtube will go. What strategy shall I take. However, every time I start to do that I realise that the best thing is to be yourself. It is so easy to get influenced by what others are doing but ultimately the best is to be you and that will be the plan for me. I know there are accounts that are growing so fast due to their immaculate images but I also need to realise that they may have totally different circumstances to be able to create them.

I believe that next year will be simply an amazing one. I feel it in my bones and lot of us will reach their dreams and goals. 2018 was somehow up and down with few personal issues to deal with but at the end of the day you always realise it is how you look at things and that always helps you to come out in the best possible ways. And after all we just bought a house in London. What a dream!!! If you ever told me few years ago that we will have a 4 bedroom house in a nice neighbourhood in London I would be very sceptical. So life is good and even more than that. Let’s appreciate even the smallest things in life and be grateful.

Merry Christmas everybody and enjoy every single moment of the holidays and may your dreams come true this Christmas.

Je Stedry den a ja se vzbudila velmi rano (to tak je kdyz si telo zvykne po dvou letech materstvi a budi se samo). A ted jsem se podivala na hodinky a bylo 4:44 coz je vzdy dobre znameni. A celou dobu bylo mym planem napsat dnesni clanek dnes, aby byl clanek opravdu aktualni a cerstvy z dnesniho rana.

Prijde mi to nahodou super, ze slavime dvoje Vanoce. 24. prosince si dame Stedrovecerni veceri v podobe ryby a salatu a dame si nejake darky a 25. rozbalime darky od Santy a od rana pak pecu krocana, sunku a vubec celou Irskou Vanocni veceri v te podobe jak ji znate z Britskych ci Americkych filmu. Docela premyslim, ze bych dneska chtela vlogovat v anglictine, protoze cizinci, co sleduji ma videa na youtube casto chteji vedet vice o Cesku a nasich tradicich.

Dalsich par dni bych chtela venovat i tomu, ze popremyslim jakym smerech bych chtela jit v ramci blogu, socialnich siti a youtube kanalu. Pokazde kdyz takto zacnu premyslet se stejne vracim k tomu, ze nejlepsi je byt sam sebou. Na Instagramu se to hemzi dokonalosti a fotkama jako z jineho sveta a nektere ucty rostou zavratnou rychlosti, ale ja si musim uvedomit, ze treba ti lide maji uplne jine podminky na tvoreni takoveho obsahu. Clovek muze udelat vzdy jen sve maximum v momentalni situaci. 

Ja stejne verim, ze 2019 bude uzasny a ma pry i byt. Tento rok byl takovy jako na horske draze. Jednou nahore a jednou dole, ale podle me je to vse o tom jak se clovek diva na situaci. Kazda vec i ta spatna se deje z nejake duvodu a ma nas neco naucit a je treba tak zivot brat. A uz jenom to, ze mame novy dum v hezke ctvrti, kde jsou 4 loznice je neskutecne. Kdyby mi nekdo rekl, kdyz jsem poprve prisla do Londyna, ze tohle se stane, byla bych velmi skepticka. Je opravdu byt za co vdecny. 

A tak preji vsem krasne svatky a at se vam vsem splni tajna prani.

Love Glamazon xoxo 

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Outfit: Let’s Switch to Burgundy

Wearing: Shoes: Manolo Blahnik via Luisa via Roma, Trousers: All Saints, Bag: Liberty, Scarf: Liberty, T-Shirt: Asos, Jumper: H&M, Sunglasses: RayBan

As soon as the leaves cover the ground I start to change the mood and want to switch my colour scheme, get cosy and just feel the autumn and winter atmosphere. In my mind I am snuggled up with the blanket, glass of red and Netlix but in reality it is often just changing colours I wear and keeping warm.

When it gets colder I love tones like burgundy, camel, neutral tones and more brown shades. As you can see when it comes to burgundy I really went big this time. I am absolutely in love with these velvet Manolos. And I hope they will dress up many pair of jeans as well as will be a perfect December parties option. And I cannot forget my new Liberty of London bag that has got the most stunning print. They are both simply timeless, luxury and beautiful.

I just love the ability of the these items to dress up even simple jumpers like that  burgundy one and leather leggings. Two things that couldn’t be more far away from the luxury sparkly flats and yet they create a perfect look. At least for me.

Jakmile vidim napade listi na podzim, je to jako bych prepnula a zacnou me bavit jine barvy, chci se zahrabat pod deku u Netflixu a uzivat si podzimni a zimni atmosferu. S prichodem podzimniho pocasi velmi casto tihnu k barvam jako vinova, velbloudi a prirodni odstiny. A jak vidite co se tyce vinove v tomto pripade to jedu ve velkem. 

Jsem silene zamilovana do svych novych nizkych boticek od Manola, ktere jsou ze sametu a tak pevne verim, ze budou skvelym spolecnikem na nadchazejici spolecenskou sezonu. Nemuzu zapomenout take na novou kabelku Liberty of London, ktera ma naprosto fantasticky a ikonicky potisk.  Oba kousky jsou nadcasove, krasne a luxusni. 

A bavi me je kombinovat prave s obycejnyma vecma jako tento jednoduchy svetr a treba kozene leginy.  Jsou to vlastne naprosto rozlisne veci a ve finale spolu tvori hezky celek. Alespon tedy pro me. 

Love Glamazon xoxo 

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